HOUSE RULES
SHORT, BECAUSE LONG RULES ARE RULES NOBODY READS · LAST UPDATED 27 JULY 2026
One principle: this is a room, and you're a guest in it. Everything below follows from that.
THE WHOLE LIST
- Be 18+. No exceptions, no judgement calls, no second chances.
- Be yourself. Your photos, your age, your name. Catfishing is removal, not a warning.
- No nudity, no sexual images. Not in photos, not sent in chat. This isn't prudishness — unsolicited images are the single most common complaint on every app like this.
- Take no for an answer. The first time.
- No hate. Race, religion, orientation, gender identity, disability. Out, immediately.
- No money. Don't sell, don't advertise, don't ask anyone for money, crypto, gift cards or bank details. Anyone who does is running a scam — report them.
- No sharing other people's things. Screenshots of someone's profile or messages posted elsewhere is a removal.
- No threats, stalking, or turning up uninvited. Also crimes, not just rule-breaks.
- Meet in public the first time. Not a rule we can enforce, but the one that matters most.
WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU BREAK THEM
For most things: the content comes down and you're told why, with a way to reply if you think we got it wrong. For hate, sexual images sent to someone who didn't ask, threats, scamming, or anything involving a minor: the account goes, immediately, and the evidence is preserved. Where a crime looks likely, it goes to the police.
WHAT WE ASK OF EVERYONE ELSE
Report it. Not because we'll always agree with you, but because a room stays good only if the people in it care about it. Reporting blocks them for you at the same time, so it costs you nothing.
Nobody owes you a reply, a meeting, or a second date. And you don't owe anyone those either. Being clear and kind about that is the whole skill.