HOUSE RULES

SHORT, BECAUSE LONG RULES ARE RULES NOBODY READS · LAST UPDATED 27 JULY 2026

One principle: this is a room, and you're a guest in it. Everything below follows from that.

THE WHOLE LIST

WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU BREAK THEM

For most things: the content comes down and you're told why, with a way to reply if you think we got it wrong. For hate, sexual images sent to someone who didn't ask, threats, scamming, or anything involving a minor: the account goes, immediately, and the evidence is preserved. Where a crime looks likely, it goes to the police.

WHAT WE ASK OF EVERYONE ELSE

Report it. Not because we'll always agree with you, but because a room stays good only if the people in it care about it. Reporting blocks them for you at the same time, so it costs you nothing.

✿ THE ONE THAT ISN'T A RULE

Nobody owes you a reply, a meeting, or a second date. And you don't owe anyone those either. Being clear and kind about that is the whole skill.

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